Women getting sexual dating
If she’s had sex EARLY – but she’s showed up as his one and only’, then there’s no problem for the woman – the deal is already sealed.
Click here to find out if you’re Dating a Commitment Friendly Man A good reputation? Many men who sleep around don’t mind this; all they are looking for is novelty in experience anyway. It’s still a sacrifice – in terms of a relationship and in terms of a reputation for the purposes of having a relationship with a high value woman though. Women might be attracted to promiscuous men and have sex with them.What I mean is – women are not biologically inclined to have sex with men that they don’t trust. If women are having sex with men that they are HIGHLY attracted to – ie; a man who DOES show up as capable and trustworthy, then the danger might be that she really DOES love him and want a commitment.But, by then, he could have categorised her as ‘one of many’, depending on how she’s showed up.If you’re on my free newsletter list, you’d have read that one thing not to do in dating is to overtly seek a man’s approval.This can be in the same ballpark as making sex easily accessible.The real question is – does your heart, deep down, want a totally devoted, committed and loving man who looks at you like there’s no other woman on earth?
(permission to fall in a heap whilst admitting this, and you won’t be the only one).
But the biggest concern I have for you is –Are you attuned to a man’s true intentions and emotional feelings about YOU when you decide to have sex before you truly feel comfortable?
Or are you more attuned to the tension of; ‘I gotta have sex with him in case I lose his attention permanently.’?
And all men naturally categorise the women they meet in to one of these categories – based on how the woman shows up. I know it kinda sucks to hear it – but no matter how ‘UN-easy’ we feel inside, because we would turn down most men…what our bodies practice becomes the energy we send out.2) Risk factors of women having unattached sex number 2. Because it warns other men not to invest their resources in the women they have gossiped about, since paternity cannot be determined.(Paternity – meaning no one really knows who the father of the child is, since the woman hasn’t established trust and commitment with one steady guy, or doesn’t seem to have).
If human males were chimpanzees though, they’d all crowd around and take care of the baby – even if 10 of them had sex with the same lady chimp, because there’s always a CHANCE that the baby is theirs.
Sometimes, we really have to WAIT to have sex with a man, until enough emotional attraction has been built up (the reliable sign it’s ok to go ahead) so that it gives him time to show he’s not really interested in anything more than sex, or that he is interested in taking the relationship further.